Community guidelines

Last updated: 18 October 2026

DateForReal is for adults who want to meet in real life. Be honest, be kind, be safe.

Do

• Use your own name and age, and record your own video.
• Be clear about what you are looking for.
• Respect “no” — immediately and without argument.
• Report anything that feels wrong.

Don't

• No minors. You must be 18+. Anyone who appears under 18 is removed.
• No fake profiles or impersonation, and no photos of other people.
• No harassment, hate, threats or discrimination (race, religion, gender, orientation, disability, etc.).
• No scams or money requests, no promotion of services, no spam, no recruiting.
• No nudity or sexually explicit content in photos or bios, and no unsolicited sexual messages.
• No violence, illegal activity, or sharing of other people's private information.
• No pressure to move off-platform or to meet before someone is ready.

Enforcement

We remove content and may warn, suspend or permanently ban accounts. Serious cases (threats, minors, fraud) may be reported to the authorities. Three separate reports automatically hide a profile until a moderator reviews it.